How to Enjoy being Alone?
By: FLIRTINI

I've been living all alone for about two weeks now and it isn't a fun experience. Being in the same routine and doing the same things with nobody but yourself, I feel isolated and even alienated at times. I sometimes  would prefer being in bed and just daydream rather than getting up and facing the real world because there is this usual scenario of eating breakfast, lunch or dinner alone and the constant trying to look at the cellphone drama, because perhaps there might be somebody who really cares or remembers your existence.  After a moment of brainstorming in my mind and doing such extensive research of the subject of being alone, I came up a list of the things to do in order to combat these unbearable loneliness of living all by yourself. Here are the following: 


1. Clean your room - I guess it is time to make your room a place conducive or at least habitable for human life. Through cleaning your room, it somehow gives you a sense of control to your life and as well as a sense of accomplishment. With all these things to clean from scrubbing the floor to wiping dusty cupboards, you will be very preoccupied to the point of not minding the thought of being alone. Lastly, cleaning your room is a one good step of living a happy life. 

2. Read a book - Reading a book brings you endless possibilities. It brings you to places that you are not familiar with and tells you many things that you haven't heard of. There are many books to choose from, whether you want to read some sci - fi books such as "Lord of the Rings" or "Harry Potter" to some great classics such as "Count of Monte Cristo" or "Pride and Prejudice". 

3. Exercise - Always wanted to have a body like those you see in the cover of the magazines? And having that kind of sexy body seems to be of a distant dream? I say, this is the right time to make such dream a realization. Go to the nearest gym or any recreational centers where you could exercise. A 2 hour exercise in a day would remove 2 hours of staring in front of the wall waiting for nothing and instead, it will burn those calories and give you a sense of fulfillment. And we never know, you might find a hot catch in the gym ;) 


4. Write - Sometimes it is funny and quite inspiring when Walter Wellesley Smith once quoted something about writing, he said, "There is nothing wrong to writing. All you do is sit down at a type writer and open a vein". Partially, I agree with what he said and partially, I do not. Writing shouldn't be seen as grotesque and difficult. However, I don't say that writing is 0% difficult, it is just that writing should be seen and taken as a passion, and as they all say, when passion is present, everything just move swiftly like air. Writing is somehow a dialogue with yourself, it is a way of communicating with your inner self. It helps you release all emotions within in you and that includes the sadness and loneliness that haunts you especially in the night. It is an output to make your life slate clean and it gives you such lighter feeling after. You can write about just anything whether about school, politics or just simply your everyday escapades.  


5. Cook - Most people are fond of eating and not cooking. As for myself, I was never interested in the cooking part but when it comes to the eating part, I am willing to take such noble responsibility of finishing everything that is laid on the table. Since, I've been living all alone and nobody is there to cook for me, and because I am human, I need to survive by learning how to cook. I don't mean that you have to enroll in a culinary school (but I am not telling you that you shouldn't). All you have to do is follow whatever is instructed in the recipe page of a cook book or a recipe/cooking website. Just be passionate about religiously following such instructions and as well as inject some experimentation like substituting one ingredient with a local ingredient or by adding some ingredients. Whatever might be the result of such crazy experimentation, tasting it would be far from crazy (based on experience). It was a fun thing to learn about, which is cooking! 


6. Participating in Online Social Networks - It is the new age of social networking from tweeting about your latest happenings in Tweeter to connecting and sharing your life with close friends and relatives in Facebook. It gives you somehow a virtual way of feeling not alone because through these networking sites, you are able to connect with friends and family through chatting, sharing photos, updating status, playing games and many things to mention. It is a fun way spending your time tweeting of being alone rather than cursing the heavens of having such fate at least in social networking sites, somebody would care and comment about it.  


7. Engage in forums and chatrooms - It is the new hype of communicating to other human beings. Long lost the days of waiting for some time to send and receive snail mails (No wonder, it is called SNAIL mail). Today, everything is an instant and everyone is always on the go that is why, many instant ways have been popping out like instant chat messengers, emails, and other never thought of inventions. Chatting in chatrooms would widen your virtual friend horizon, and it helps you gain many friends from different places in the world. You could talk to them with various topics in mind but be sure you choose descent chatrooms. And also, engaging oneself in forums, where you could post different topics to talk about and wait for people to comment about it and voila, an endless thread of thoughts and ideas. 


8. Travel - Let not financial limitations hinder you from travelling. It is a fun way of learning at the same time meeting new people from different walks of life. It all needs an extensive planning of every cent that you have in your pocket. If your money would just allow you to do travel locally then never let that opportunity pass. If you have the means of traveling in different countries, then it would be much better. Don't let anything such as financial, age, or even being alone, be an obstacle to such wonderful experience that travelling has to offer.  


9. Be of a Help - It is good to be helpful once in awhile. If you see an old woman who is having difficulty bringing her things, don't think twice and help the poor lady at once. There are so many things to do to become helpful to people. Perhaps, joining in an organization with a good cause and good intention for society such as ONE, an organization committed to fight poverty and preventable diseases or perhaps you could join a local organization that helps clean the environment. It is a way of spending your time creatively and significantly.  


10. Be Happy and Optimistic about life - I don't need any explaining to do here. All the things I mentioned would be useless without this.

I ADORE
By: MIMAY








I was thinking of a word that best describe you
I was thinking of a place where i can forget you
I tried to find the right emotion, what i am feeling now.
I look at each person i came across.
Every corner seems dimmed, every person is blurred and lifeless

Then I suddenly saw you
Your face calm and happy
Your lips full of laughter
Your eyes sparkling with joy

Your Happiness means a lot to me
You enjoy the night while i suffer in grief
I know i cant have you
I know i cant be with you

All i know is i love you more than i love myself
I cant tell you because you might laugh
You might ignore me
You might think im nothing

For i know, you cannot love me the way i am loving you now
If i tell you, i will just hurt myself more than i am hurting now

They say...
That when you love someone you give her the power to hurt YOU.
For me, not just HURT YOU BUT KILL YOU!

Chatters Delight!
By: Queen B.

Dahil sobra na ang naramdaman kong kadramahan sa mga huling nabasa ko naisipin kong bigyan ng ibang kulay ang buhay ng mga regular chatters ng lezpinay! Sorry for the late post! sobrang na enjoy ko ang aking summer vacay kaya bihira makapag sulat ng mga kuro-kuro, mga kalokohan at samut-saring kababalghan nagaganap sa aking kapaligiran!
Enjoy!


Paunawa: Hindi po lahat ng mga nakasulat sa deskription na inyong mababasa ay pawang katotohanan, ang iba ay hinugot lamang sa malikot na pagiisip ng nagsulat! Maraming Salamat!

Misty`Eye-B


Ulirang callboi sa lugar ng ortigas! Wag nyo na akong tanungin kung saan! Baka agawan nyo pa ako mga hudas!  Hopeless Romantic Daw sya sabi ng mga totoong nakakakilala sa kanya! Paano naman magiging hopeless ang may kinakarir na?! Paki explain nga!

Magaling sya mang-karir-ra! hindi yung pang kabayo ha! mga gaga! Pero matulin pa sa kabayo ang takbo nya balita ko kapag nakakita ng tipo' nya!


At sino sya na nababalitaan kong “bossing” mo daw? Ikaw ba ang “boss” ng buhay nya? Sayang ka alam mo ba? Pwede din sana kitang gawing “papa”! Kaso ayaw ko sa mga taong hindi sigurado kung ano ba talaga ang tunay na gusto! “karir” ba na pampalipas oras o pwede mong mahalin at pwedeng huminto ang bawat oras? Mahirap yan kaya siguraduhin mo na, bago “sya” mawalan ng oras!

Name: Charlie

Age: 30

Status: Single

Location: Manila

|ex libiris

Depress depressan sya, single for 1 year ang drama ano ba kasi trip mo ha? Basta naka palda ayos na?! O sya mag moment kana baka makahanap kana ng hinihintay mong pukersya! Hahaha! Next na baka mahawa pa ako sa kanya!








Name: Cris

Age: 25

Status: Single

Occupation: Division Manager/Part-time law student

Pre-law degree: BSBA Major In Management

Patron`

Mukha lang syang totoy na pinabili ng suka ng nanay nya sa tindahan ni aling nena sa may california pagliko mo new york na! O diba bongga! Hindi agad nakauwi ng bahay dahil nayaya ng barkada at sa internet cafe ang tuloy nila at dun naghanap ng mahahada!

 Babaero daw  sabi nila pero friendly lang daw sya! Iisa lang naman ang inamin nya! Crush daw nya “ate” nya! Crush nga lang ba o mahal mo na? Sino ba ang ate mo? Pati tuloy ako naintriga !Umamin kana! Pero infariness ha! Yummy ka!?! Ngiti mo palang solve na! Sana makilala kita ano number mo ha?

Last week hiningi ko nasl mo kay Demonyita`  ang sabi single ka after 2 days ang sabi “taken” ka na! Ano ba talaga ang totoong drama! Ang bilis mo naman makahanap ng bagong “mama” ganun ba talaga kapag mabenta?!

Paano ba magmahal ang isang katulad mo? Hindi siguro ako magsasawang titigan ang mga ngiti mong nakakademonyo!

Name: Vinz

Age: 21

Status: Taken

Location: California, USA

 

Prima-Salve

Sya ang number 1 active na operator sa channel LEzPINAY! Oo lagi syang online pero wag ka! Ang laging banat nya ay tumawa!Tawa lang sya ng tawa! Nakapag pa check up ka na ba? Hahaha! Pero salamat sa supporta kung wala ka, wala ng saya, wala ng ligaya........

 Matanong lang kita Prima, Paano nga ba magmahal ng malayo ka sa kanya? Makakayanan mo ba ang mga sandaling hindi mo sya makasama, makukuntento ka nalang ba na kausap sya habang nagwawater-water kana? o okay lang mawala sya dahil marami pang iba at naka-reserba?

Pero paano kung iba na pakiramdam mo at sya na ang mahal mo? “Karir” pa ba ang tawag dun? Ang hirap magmahal P`nyeta! Makapag laba nga muna!

Ayaw ko sanang magdrama kaso medyo emo ngayon ang feeling ko pagbigyan nyo na!

Name: Sel

Age: 35

Status: Taken

Location: Mindanao

 Lastkiss

Ano bang meron sa nick mo? Naghahanap ka  ba ng babaeng huling mahahalikan mo?! O baka naman hindi mo makalimutan ang huling nakahalikan mo?

Minsan ang hirap humanap ng taong makakapagpaligaya sayo, Ano nga ba ang hanap mo, isang taong mahal mo dahil kailangan mo o ang taong kailangan mo dahil mahal mo?

Nagtatanong lang ako baka sakaling may maghimala at maambunan ako ng mamahalin ko at mas mamahalin ako! Pwedeng ako nalang ang LASTKISS MO?!





Name: Joyce

Age: 29

Status: Taken

Location: Cavite City

By: - G




Lesbian death bed is a term coined by Pepper Schwartz. This is a ‘phenomenon’ when a lesbian couple have less sex than they use to after being together for so long. This term is a misnomer for the fact that this scenario isn’t just experienced by lesbian couples but also by heterosexual couples and gay men as well.

Why do people experience death bed?

• Sex is not important. Some people view sex as a treat, or a desert in a relationship. Some couple think of  sex as something not as important as other factors like communication, trust, friendship.
• Stress. With problems back and forth, couples tend to forget about sex. Sex becomes a task that needs to be performed to get filled.
• Health problems. because of physical problems, sex drives tends to lower than they used to.
• Lost passion. this happens because of the fact of being together for so long, they loss their affection and passion for the other person.
• other factors

When Lesbian death bed happens, what do you do?
There are a lot of ways to get the passion back, to keep the light burning. BE adventurous and experiment. Sex is not taboo anymore. People have sex almost everyday, married or not and in different places. Sex is something that is shared by two people who has feelings for each other, who is intimate with one another – the term should be Making Love. Or it can be just a casual thing between friends, hook ups, FUBU (Fuck Buddies), experiments. So how do you keep the fire burning after being together for so long? Here’s a list of useful fact to practice:

1. Minimize excuses – try to lessen excuses just to avoid having sex.
2. Watch porn – as funny as other may see this, watching pornography actually helps. When you watch porn, you tend to visualize yourself in that scenario. You will get aroused. Watching porn isn’t something that you should be shy about.
3. Use sex toys. There is a wide selection for sexual enhancers to help you with maximizing pleasure with your partner. Vibrators, Penile toys, Glass sex toys, Nipple toys, Anal toys, or General penetrative toys. With a wide selection, you can choose whatever that is to your liking. To give you a a little something to read, click on SEX TOYS.
4. Fantasize. Scenarios that make you kinky, a certain set up which can make you horny or something that just gives you a spark. It maybe a doctor-nurse thing, having sex on top of a table, to have sex on your parents bed/room, sex on a plane, master-servant. Whatever your sexual fantasies are, share it with your partner, and just play. Enjoy the moment and savor the pleasure.
5. Have a sex date. This is different from making a schedule, but think of it more like a date. this is the time when you think of nothing else but sex. A night that you can spend with the other partner and both enjoy. A night that you will look forward to.
6. Read. there is a lot of books that focuses on erotic topics. Like watching porn, don’t be shy about reading erotica. This way, you will learn different thing and in return will make you want to try it.
7. keep the communication open.

Avoid Lesbian death bed. Sex is not something of less importance. Sex gives you passion and love. Sex gives you urge and the drive to the other person. Another extension on how to show you love the other person. Sex is simply making love to the other person.



Note: Photo courtesy of deviantart

By: Queen B.


Nasaan na ba ang mga dating operators at chatters ng Lezpinay?

Chat rooms or referred to as rooms, channels are the common term used by mirc chatters, being a chatter for almost 5 yrs, attended some of the eb’s, events of lezpinay channel , met most of the organizers, operators and chatters , I just can’t help but ask;  asan na nga ba sila?

Ang ibang chatters minsan nakikita ko pa din sa room, paisa-isa nalang ang swerte mo kung old chatter ka at may nakita ka pang kakilala mo! . I miss the old days na halos magkakakilala pa halos lahat ng chatters, very approachable at accommodating ang bawat operators at minsan almost every week may eb, kaya naman halos 24/7 naka park ang nick ko sa “room”  para laging updated sa events and happenings. Madalas din magka-yayaan ang ibang clan ng chatters para sa mini gathering. Those were the days, were everyone is friendly, wala pang masyadong responsibility at buhay chat lang ang nasa isip!



One of the reason why I enjoy my chat-life is because of the fact that channel lezpinay is a friendly community. Mahirap ang buhay ng isang Closet Queen sabi nga nila, and honestly when i started to chat doon ko na realize na mas madali palang mag open kapag alam mong may ibang tao din na kagaya mo at handa kang suportahan at damayan! That is my kind of “room service” im looking for, kaya naman hanggang ngayon im still supporting lezpinay kahit hindi na ako active sa chat.

Nasaan na nga ba sila? Hindi ko din alam, ang alam ko lang masyadong maliit ang mundo, magkikita-kita ulit tayo! =)


Happy Easter!